Roles of Men & Women in the Church

1. "These stirring declarations from prophets of God help us to understand that each man and each boy who holds the priesthood of God must be worthy of that great privilege and responsibility.  Each must strive to learn his duty and then do it to the best of his ability.  As we do so, we provide the means by which our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, can accomplish Their work here upon the earth.  It is we who are Their representatives here.... Holders of the priesthood may not necessarily be eloquent in their speech.  They may not hold advanced degrees in difficult fields of study.  They may very well be men of humble means.  But God is no respecter of persons, and He will sustain His servants in righteousness as they avoid the evils of our day and live lives of virtue and purity" (Thomas S. Monson, Be Your Best Self, April 2009 General Conference).

2. "As priesthood bearers and representatives of the Lord Jesus Christ, we must serve others in a manner consistent with His example. There is a reason that almost every lesson on priesthood leadership at some point arrives at the 121st section of the Doctrine and Covenants. In a few verses, the Lord provides a master course in priesthood leadership. 'No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned.' The character traits and practices described in these verses are the foundation of godly patience and are inseparably connected to effective priesthood and patriarchal service. These attributes will give you strength and wisdom in magnifying your callings, in preaching the gospel, in fellowshipping quorum members, and in giving the most important priesthood service--which is indeed the loving service within the walls of your own homes.... As the Lord is patient with us, let us be patient with those we serve. Understand that they, like us, are imperfect. They, like us, make mistakes. They, like us want others to give them the benefit of the doubt. Never give up on anyone. And that includes not giving up on yourself" (Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Continue in Patience, April 2010 General Conference).

3. "My dear brethren, the work of patience boils down to this: keep the commandments; trust in God, our Heavenly Father; serve Him with meekness and Christlike love; exercise faith and hope in the Savior; and never give up. The lessons we learn from patience will cultivate our character, lift our lives, and heighten our happiness. They will help us to become worthy priesthood bearers and faithful disciples of our Master, Jesus Christ" (Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Continue in Patience, April 2010 General Conference).

4. "The priesthood holds consummate power. It can protect you from the plague of pornography--and it is a plague--if you are succumbing to its influence. If one is obedient, the priesthood can show how to break a habit and even erase an addiction. Holders of the priesthood have that authority and should employ it to combat evil influences" (Boyd K. Packer, Cleansing the Inner Vessel, October 2010 General Conference).

5. "Servants of the Lord have always counseled us to dress appropriately to show respect for our Heavenly Father and for ourselves. The way you dress sends messages about yourself to others and often influences the way you and others act. Dress in such a way as to bring out the best in yourself and those around you. Avoid extremes in clothing and appearance, including tattoos and piercings"  (Thomas S. Monson, Preparation Brings Blessings, April 2010 General Conference).

6. "The oft-repeated adage is ever true: 'Honesty [is] the best policy.' A Latter-day Saint young man lives as he teaches and as he believes. He is honest with others. He is honest with himself. He is honest with God. He is honest by habit and as a matter of course. When a difficult decision must be made, he never asks himself, 'What will others think?' but rather, 'What will I think of myself?' "  (Thomas S. Monson, Preparation Brings Blessings, April 2010 General Conference).

7. "According to 'The Family: A Proclamation to the World,' the principles I have taught about teaching in the home apply to both parents, but they are especially crucial to the role of a mother. Fathers most often spend much of their day away from home in their employment. That is one of the many reasons so much of the responsibility for teaching the child in the home falls on mothers. While circumstances do vary and the ideal isn't always possible, I believe it is by divine design that the role of motherhood emphasizes the nurturing and teaching of the next generation. We see so many challenges today from distracting and destructive influences intended to mislead God's children. We are seeing many young people who lack the deep spiritual roots necessary to remain standing in faith as storms of unbelief and despair swirl around them. Too many of our Father in Heaven's children are being overcome by worldly desires. The onslaught of wickedness against our children is at once more subtle and more brazen than it has ever been. Teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ in the home adds another layer of insulation to protect our children from worldly influences" (L. Tom Perry, Mothers Teaching Children in the Home, April 2010 General Conference).

8. "Loving parent. What a noble title! There are no greater roles in life for a man than those of husband and father. Likewise, there are no greater roles for a woman than those of wife and mother" (Russell M. Nelson, Woman--of Infinite Worth, October 1989 General Conference).

9. "Women by divine nature have the greater gift and responsibility for home and children and nurturing there and in other settings. In light of this, the faith of the sisters in being willing to leave their homes to cross the plains for the unknown was inspiring. If one had to characterize their most significant attribute, it would be their unwavering faith in the restored gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ" (Quienten L. Cook, LDS Women Are Incredible, April 2011 General Conference).

10. "Now may I share a few thoughts with you mothers about the special role you play in your daughters' lives. We have a family friend who travels often with members of her extended family. Her primary observation after each trip is how much the young women behave like their mothers. If the mothers are thrifty, so are their daughters. If the mothers are modest, so are the girls. If the mothers wear flip-flops and other casual clothing to sacrament meeting, so do their daughters. Mothers,  your example is extremely important to your daughters--even if they don't acknowledge it. Throughout the history of the world, women have always been teachers of moral values. That instruction begins in the cradle and continues throughout the lives of their children. Today our society is bombarded with messages about womanhood and motherhood that are dangerously and wickedly wrong. Following these messages can put your daughters on the path to sin and self-destruction. Your daughters may not understand that unless you tell them or, better, unless you show them how to make good choices. As mothers in Israel, you are your daughters' first line of defense against the wiles of the world" (M. Russell Ballard, Mothers and Daughters, April 2010 General Conference).